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Recently, i've received some emails by people who read my blogs and three quater of them come up with a similar question - " how do you deal with problems in your life and stay so positive?"
And i decided to do a reply to this question.

So first of all, I am not well positionned to make a point on this because most of the time I don't know what to do with my problems. And of course, everybody's different so everyone has different issues. One thing for sure, I am very very optimist as a person.
When facing a problem, some people decide to rip their heads off trying to figure their way out. Some people put all blames on other people and take revenge. Some people leave it there and just move on. But let's face it, what happened happened and whatever you do isn't going to change a thing. Its just all about making yourself feel guilty, feel less guilty or trying to hide it. Since nothing is going to change it, might as well take it easy. Lay down, and think about it. What you did wrong, what other people did wrong, what caused all this, is there a way to solve things peacefully, what will be the consequence, what's best for you? And by the time you got all these figured out, your head will be half cleared up. Then what you have to tell yourself is that, life is hard and other issues will eventually come up later in your life. If everytime it comes and smash you down to the ground and you dont get up, well you'll be lying on the floor for the rest of your life. How about you tough it up and get through this with confidence? Smile to yourself and remind yourself of all the opportunities you have in your life that someone else in this world would crave for.

And listen to songs like I'm Yours by Jason Mraz, it helps trust me.

With Love, YZ